Queen of Pleasure

10-week online group experience

A program on pleasure, desire & magic

Do you feel like there is more depth and juiciness to who you are – but you’re not sure where to start looking?

Queen, this program is made for you!

(Think of this as a Pleasure Deep Dive 101)
  • Do you feel disconnected from your body? 
  • Do you crave experiencing the depths of your sexuality? 
  • Have you been neglecting yourself and your needs? 
  • Do you want to feel like a sexy & centered Queen?
  • Do you feel unclear on your desires and goals for your life? 
  • Do you want to learn sex magic? 

Look – to be crystal clear on your desires, feel damn good about yourself, your body and who you are as a sexual creature isn’t something that comes naturally to the majority of women out there.

And are we surprised?

We grew up in a Western culture that glorifies the young, emaciated and photoshopped.

 We have lost our natural connection to our womb and menstrual cycles, and it shows.
Our idea of sex is based on movies where she always keen & ready and gloriously orgasms in 10 seconds.
We are suffering from information overload and decision fatigue.

And with our fingers glued to social media, we suffer from comparison syndrome – and everyone else looks like they’re having a better time and better relationships  than us.

How the hell are you supposed to know what your authentic sexuality looks like and feels like when there is so much fake noise around you?

This is exactly why I created the Queen of Pleasure program.

To give you a clear map back to yourself and your authentic pleasure.

I’ve been on the path of personal development for over 20 years. It led me to  explore more modalities than I can count, and sure, getting a lot of value out of it. 

But in all of these paths of personal discovery or mystical traditions, one thing was missing: sexuality. 

In 2013, I had my first entry into the world of Tantra – and my entire concept of who I was changed. What I learned through diving deep into this world is that sexuality is the key component to our beings. We are created through this energy, and our bodies has the capacity to move this energy for things like healing, magic, nourishment and creativity. 

With a radiant sexuality comes a permission to live a life of connection to your body, your desires and pleasure.

And no… it doesn’t mean that you must become a sex-fiend (a common fear)  

It means that you start living from a place of being turned on by your own life and desires. 

When I started this journey I was feeling very unmotivated by my 9-5 job

I had no real direction for my life, no dreams, no aspirations

I was waking up and recreating every day until I got what I called “routine fatigue”

(a nice girl way of saying burnout)

And I was chronically single.

To feel some excitement and aliveness in life, I would party and drink too much wine,

always feeling like something was missing.

As I started diving deeper into that pleasure & sexuality work, things started shifting. I started becoming unstuck.

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It was truly life-changing, in the most literal sense of the word.

Over the years, I’ve spoken to so many women who just feel like their spark is missing. Like there is something more to this.

Some feel stuck in their jobs with no idea of where they want to go next. 

Some feel stuck in their relationships, devoid of aliveness and passion. 

Some feel stuck in their pleasure, disappointed by their sexual experiences 

And I wanted to draw a map for every woman to find her way out of this stuckness.

First, the Roadmap to Pleasure was born, based on everything I’ve learned over the last 7 years. This is a guide of all the touchpoints that, if followed, will reconnect you not only to your sexuality, but also to:

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You deserve to live like a Queen 

You deserve to experience the pure pleasure that life has to offer

You deserve to live an authentic life aligned with your soul’s purpose 

You deserve to have epic relationships with legendary intimacy 

You deserve to have autonomy over your body and your destiny

I created Queen of Pleasure for YOU, Queen.

Are you answering the call you hear inside?

Welcome to:

The Queen Of Pleasure

Queen of Pleasure is a 10-week online group program, systematically working through 9 areas of life that will reignite that spark inside you. When you complete the course, you will not only have reconnected to your deep feminine body, but also with your soul’s desires and with a plan that can take you beyond the course and into the rest of your life.

You’ll have 2 weekly group calls with me, jam-packed with value and the opportunity to ask any questions. You’ll also get 20 targeted embodiment practices that are yours for life. 

Oh, and did I mention the sisterhood Facebook group, where you get to be seen and celebrated by other QUEENS?

The 9 areas of focus:


To quiet the mind & drop into presence


Become friends with your feminine body


Writing a new story of empowerment


Making self-pleasure a priority


Your connection to the divine


From masturbation to meditation


Experiencing full-body pleasure


Owning your deep desires


Creating new realities

Are you ready to say yes to
your pleasure?

Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know

Will there be nudity?
Only in your own private space! Because we are working with pleasure, you will get guided audios to facilitate your self-pleasure practice. The videos and the calls will not contain nudity.
Do I need any tools to do the course?
In the first week, I will give you a recommendation for some tools that can help you in your exploration, but you can look into getting a yoni egg and/or a yoni wand. You don’t need it to take part in the course though!
Isn’t it weird to join a course about sexuality?
I think it’s weird that we’ve been ignoring this core part of our being for so long! In particular female sexuality has been shrouded with shame and taboo for so long. By saying yes to your sexuality, you are saying yes to changing age-old paradigms!
I’m a survivor of sexual trauma - will this course help?

Even though this course is a trauma-informed course, it is not specifically for trauma healing. I would not recommend this if you haven’t done some prior work with a professional that specializes in trauma. If you have already done other work, you understand your body and you are well resourced then absolutely, this course will be great for you to expand into deeper levels of pleasure in a safely held space. 

Can I do this if I’m single?

This course is for you whether you are single, dating or in a relationship. Regardless of your relationship status, this course is an investment in your pleasure. And I’ve definitely seen clients start meeting higher-quality partners after doing this work…

Still unsure?

Book a free 20-minute Discovery Call to see if this is the right fit for you.


South African applicants can pay through PayFast in ZAR – contact me at info@marilugabba.com